NO COMPASSION Required .....NEEDS SUPPORT AND UNDERSTANDING

                                                   

Hi Dear Readers

It has been more than a year since I started writing blogs , usually they were about nature , love , relationship ,my choices in life and so on. My heartfelt gratitude for reading them ,appreciating by commenting and responding  .There are ample of subjects I want to write on and now I think it's time to get a little bolder... more realistic .

There are varieties of readers having different tastes and I can bet beforehand that there are readers who might not like what I'm writing  about .Time changes and so do the  people and so does the subject .

Courageous enough to share what I'm going through nowadays.But wait it's not only me but millions and millions of women around the world. So, here I don't stand alone instead it's WE . Just one more thing I would like to add I'm not sharing plight and pitiful condition of women or begging to show some mercy or  any sympathy .We, as women are strong enough to face everything at any moment ,this is how God has made us.

This blog is about, no compassion required ,when we go through our PERIMENOPAUSE phase what we hope is to get some support and understanding by our family, friends ,colleagues and even from the organization we work for.We deserved to be look after well like we have been looked after once when we were pregnant .

Like Pregnancy is an important phase in every women's life then why not Perimenopause? I need not to define what is it ....one who doesn't know can Google it .We have been looked after well during our pregnancy as we are about to bring one new life onto this planet ,our health matters because it directly affects the health of the baby.When we are pregnant it seems that the whole world is looking after our well being.But why this world has failed to understand or I may say completely ignorant about Perimenopause phase .Pregnancy lasts for Nine months but Perimenopause goes for about  five to Eight years.... a long span....isn't it ? When we enter this phase we go through many drastic changes both physically and emotionally.But who cares!!! Specially family never bothers to ask.It feels like its our own war and we are the solitary soldiers who've to win this war on our own.

How good it will be if we get support from everyone especially from our family .After all we are not working machines. After all those long years of struggle to get our rights ,I think one more struggle to make everyone understand that  We have the right to live freely ,We have the right to be loved unconditionally ,We have the right to be looked after well without any return and I'm sure after this phase gets over I will come out more stronger than ever before.

Thanks for reading 

PS-Life is full of lovely moments and unforgettable stages .